Life: A Great Bundle Of Little Things

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It’s easy to overlook those small moments of joy in life when you’re constantly working toward something bigger and better. Rather than appreciating what you have, you wish for more and remain dissatisfied. Unfortunately, there have been too many times when I’ve taken simple pleasures and gestures for granted. Today reminded me to appreciate those things.

For the third day of my Odyssey Week, I joined Gordon for a morning of special deliveries for patients, their families, and the employees of Le Bonheur Children’s Hospital. Gordon, an all-star volunteer, is in charge of the beverage cart. The famous beverage cart, which includes a nice selection of drinks and condiments, visits the twelve floors of the hospital several times during the week. It’s a hit! From tea to the Le Bonheur Special (a hot beverage with a mocha-esque flavor), the beverage cart is designed to quench any thirst. While the beverage cart does have quite the fan-base, so does Gordon. His small meaningful acts of kindness are remembered and appreciated by different people at the hospital. Rather than retire, Gordon decided to look into community service opportunities several years ago. His daughter Timorie Belk, who is Le Bonheur’s Volunteer Services Coordinator, invited Gordon to contribute his skills at the hospital. With the beverage cart, Gordon provides hope and encouragement to those facing tough challenges. Every cup is truly made with love, as Gordon carefully pours and stirs the ingredients for each drink. Through this experience, I am reminded that we should never underestimate the power and impact of the small things in life. With this seemingly small service, Gordon is able to help make people’s lives so much happier.

All morning, Gordon and I travelled from room to room to see if patients or family members wanted anything to drink. We had an awesome system! Gordon would typically enter each room to collect drink orders, and I would be ready to prepare the drinks in the hallway. There were instances when we’d switch, and I’d ask individuals what they’d want. During my visit, I noticed how recipients benefited from the beverage cart’s convenient pick-me-ups. Staying positive is sometimes easier said than done but through this service, patients and employees are reminded that there are people who really care about them. At Le Bonheur, it could be a friendly smile from a staff member or reassuring words of a doctor that make the biggest impact on a patient’s day. These ongoing small gestures allow people to create deeper, more personal connections with others, as well as, enjoy fuller and more satisfying lives.

If people missed the cart during our stops, they’d ultimately follow us until we’d stop again. Like I said, the beverage cart is a hit! No one wants to miss out on a cup of hot cocoa with extra marshmallows! We only had enough hot water and coffee for four floors, but I was ready to refill the urns and restock the cart for more visits. I understand why Gordon’s beverage cart has been successful and appreciate how small acts of kindness can heal, inspire, and help make life better. It’s important to find the joy in every little thing, as well as, share those special moments with others. I admire what Gordon has done with the beverage cart, bringing comfort and happiness to the Le Bonheur community. It inspires me to find little ways to help others and simply slow down to enjoy life to the fullest.


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Intern Odyssey: Spirit of the…Stomach?

Since I went through college as probably the only student to never drink a cup of coffee, it was a little strange to find myself at a beverage cart in charge of distributing hundreds of cups of coffee to Le Bonheur Children’s Hospital nurses and patients. After a crash course on how to make coffee (a skill that patients found hard to believe I did not have), we were off!

When I first heard that I would be distributing coffee at Le Bonheur, I thought it sounded like fun, but not something entirely vital for a hospital. It wasn’t until I manned the beverage cart and visited each hospital room that I realized how wrong I was.

What I found to be most unique about Le Bonheur hospital is that it does more than just focus on treating health issues–it also focuses on each patient’s quality of life. This is apparent in both the specially  created artwork, and the attitude of everyone who works there. I realized that sometimes it is the little things that make the most difference to hospital patients: things like pet therapy, chocolate chip granola bars, coffee, and smiles. It was clear that some of the patients and parents just wanted company, someone to talk to, something normal in their lives. I couldn’t blame them.

As I pushed the cart through the hospital corridors, red and green hands affixed to room doors indicated that visitors were welcome or prohibited into the rooms. Walking down the beautifully decorated hospital halls, I saw a wide variety of patients from teenagers being pulled around on stretchers to beautiful little girls, one with a parade of balloons from the hit Disney movie Frozen tied to her wheelchair. Le Bonheur walls are decorated in beautiful hand-crafted and uplifting works of art, again aiming not just to keep patients well, but working to enable them to live and enjoy high quality of lives.

An example of one of the hospital's unique and uplifting art pieces

One example of the unique and uplifting works of art displayed on the hospital walls                                                                 

Joining me at the beverage cart was Gordon, the Le Bonheur volunteer who built the beverage cart himself! I loved chatting with Gordon throughout the day, and learned all about his religious beliefs. I grew up with a rabbi for a father, but have previously worked at a Lutheran church’s social justice ministry and served as the president of my college’s interfaith club, so I am always interested to learn about people’s faith beliefs and how their beliefs help form their actions and life views, particularly in regards to service.

Gordan and I Manning the Beverage Cart

Gordon and me in front of the awesome Beverage Cart

The beverage cart itself is ridiculously awesome with windmill fans, sparkles,  and streamers. Side note, Gordon first discovered his role at Le Bonheur through his daughter Timorie. I couldn’t get over what a beautiful thing this was for a father and daughter to be able to work together and it made me think back to when I was 13 and my father (being the rabbi of the synagogue at the time) said the blessing over me in front of everyone for my bat mitzvah. I was honored to temporarily ‘join’ Gordon’s family for the day. It was clear from the interactions between Gordon and the nurses that they all knew and loved and supported each other. I watched them joke around: Gordon joked that certain people were restricted from coffee and their good-natured teasing further illuminated to me how tightly-knit the community there at Le Bonheur is.

This community extends past staff and volunteers. On multiple occasions we were refereed to by patients as “a God send.” It is amazing how a cup of coffee can change the outlook of a day and as we continued, it was clear that the beverage cart’s magic was as much for the nurses as it was for the patients.  Many of these nurses had been up with patients late through the night, and this small cup of coffee was what revived them and renewed their energy and spirits.

I learned a lot at Le Bonheur and as I move forward in my own life, I plan on being more conscious of the small things that I can do for people that actually go an extremely long way. I am thankful to Le Bonheur for reminding me the invaluable impact of conversation and a free cup of coffee.

Thank you for reading! Like what you read? Mira Biller is the intern at Volunteer Odyssey and is passionate about a variety of social justice issues. She especially loves connecting people with organizations that will be mutually beneficial and help create a better and more connected community. Contact her at mira@volunteerodyssey.com

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